Which Word?: Among vs. Between

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I’m back with another tricky word pair. Today we’re going to unlock the mystery of when to use among and when to use between, two words that have essentially the same function and meaning–which is what makes them so confusing!

We know that both words are prepositions used to indicate something that is in, through, shared, or held in common with something else (or multiple something elses). For example, She couldn’t decide between the two choices and Tom, Dick, and Harry shared the pizza among themselves. But how do you know when to use among and when to use between?

Great news! There is an incredibly simple answer: When there are only two somethings, use between; when there are more than two somethings, use among. So, we say She couldn’t decide between the two choices because there are only two choices, and we say Tom, Dick, and Harry shared the pizza among themselves because there are more than two people sharing. This rule applies no matter the somethings we’re talking about. And how can you remember that? What helps me is that the twe in between looks a lot like the number two, so I use the preposition with the two(e) in it for two somethings and the other one for everything else!

I hope you find this tip helpful, and that no lingering confusion over this word pair comes between you and your writing! Until next time!

Which Word?: Further vs. Farther

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It’s time for us to conquer another confusing word pair. This week’s culprit is further and farther. Most everyone is stymied when it comes to figuring out which of these words to use when, probably because their definitions and usage are almost identical. Both are used to indicate distance from something, whether physical or metaphorical, so most of us wind up using them more or less interchangeably. But there’s a simple trick to knowing which one is actually correct in which case!

In cases where you’re talking about a physical distance that can be measured, use farther. In all other cases, use further. So, The store is two miles farther down the road but The setback put him further from his dream than he’d ever been. Even better than this simple rule is the simple way to remember it: “far” indicates a distance (e.g., How far did he run?), so farther goes with physical distances.

And that’s all there is to it! I hope this little trick will help resolve the further vs. farther quandary for you for good.

Until next time!

Which Word?: Compliment vs. Complement

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I’m back with another confusing word pair: compliment and complement. Today’s pair tends to trip people up because not only are the words’ meanings somewhat related, but their spellings also differ by only one letter–and they’re also pronounced the same way. Yikes! But fear not; the good news is that there’s an easy way to remember which word means what.

Let’s start with the definitions. Compliment functions as both a verb and a noun, meaning to express praise or appreciation (the verb form) or the actual expression of praise or appreciation (the noun form). So, I complimented her on her new haircut or She received a compliment on her new haircut. Complement also functions as both a verb and a noun, but there are actually two different definitions for the noun. The verb form of complement means to complete something or to make it better. One of the noun forms of complement pairs with the verb (like the noun and verb forms of compliment), meaning something that completes something else or makes it better. The other noun form means the usual required number or amount of something. So, Her new earrings complemented her haircut nicely or Her new earrings were a nice complement to her haircut or She received her full complement of haircuts each year to make sure her locks didn’t get too long.

Now that you know the different definitions, how do you remember which definition goes with which word? The trick that works for me is that compliment has one “i” and one “e,” just like the word nice. When you compliment somebody, you’re being nice. The other trick that works for me is that the extra “e” in complement complements the first. So, complement has two e’s because they complete each other, and compliment has an i and an e just like nice because it’s nice to express praise and appreciation!

I hope this helps you keep track of which word to use when. Stay tuned for more tricky word pairs soon!

Which Word?: Effect vs. Affect

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Today I’m starting a new series of posts to try to answer your burning questions about which word to use! English is a beautiful, descriptive language, but it also contains a whole lot of confusing word pairs. I’m hoping that in the weeks to come, I can help bring clarity to some of that confusion, so you’ll always know which word you’re really searching for.

I’m going to start with one of the most widely used–and misused–pairs: effect and affect. If you find these two words frustrating, rest assured that you’re not alone! Most people wander around never quite sure which is the verb and which is the noun. The reason none of us can seem to keep that straight is probably that they are actually both verbs and both nouns in certain cases. But the good news is that one is usually the noun and the other is usually the verb, so if you can remember that, you’ll be correct 98 percent of the time!

Generally, we use the words affect and effect when we’re talking about something causing something else. In these vast majority of cases, affect is the verb and effect is the noun. So, “One possible effect of global warming is climate change” and “Global warming might affect our planet by causing climate change.” One way to remember which is which is that affect has one “e,” just like the word verb, so affect is the verb. Whatever trick you find to work for you, if you can remember affect as a verb and effect as a noun, you’ll almost always be right.

Now, you might be wondering about those other cases, when affect becomes a noun and effect a verb. Both of those are quite rare, so feel free to ignore those cases and just focus on remembering the rule above! But if you want to know… We use effect as a verb to mean “to bring about an outcome”; it’s most common in the phrase “to effect change.” We use affect as a noun to talk about the mood that someone appears to have; this use is pretty much limited to psychology, to describe things like “he displayed a depressed affect.”

So, which word should you use? Affect (with its one “e”) as a verb and effect as a noun! Go forth, and conquer all your causal writing!

See you next time!

Two Simple Way to Improve Your Life!

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Did the title of today’s post grab your attention? I hope so, because I’m really excited about two incredible opportunities being offered to you by two of the wonderful authors with whom I work.

First, to improve your life as an author…

The fabulous Kitty Bucholtz (author of Little Miss Lovesick and Unexpected Superhero) is teaching an online, ongoing class about self-publishing books. More than just a few words of advice, this in-depth course will take you through absolutely everything you need to know to successfully self-publish–all presented with Kitty’s delightful sense of humor. As an author who has self-published many times over, she has so much knowledge to share with her students. And the best part is that for the next 10 days, she’s opened registration for her course at a hugely discounted rate! Be sure to sign up by October 12 to take advantage of this amazing opportunity.

And now that your needs as an author are met, why not take the time to improve your life in general?

Dr. Roddy Carter, a world-renowned physician and scientist, is taking health and happiness to a whole new level with BodyWHealth. So much more than a diet or exercise program, BodyWHealth is a lifelong journey that will bring you physical, mental, and emotional health and prosperity. Roddy has already introduced this journey to his many followers through his blog, and I’m currently working with him on a book that will hopefully spread the message about this revolutionary, rewarding lifestyle to many more people. What I’ve learned from Roddy has already changed my outlook on life and made me a happier, healthier person. I hope you will take a few moments to look at his site; I’m sure that if you do, you will be as excited as I am about embarking on the BodyWHealth journey. And I’ll be sure to let you know when his book is being released!

That’s it for now. I do hope that you’ll take the time to check out the amazing benefits Kitty and Roddy have to offer you. If you have any questions, be sure to leave them for me in the comments. Otherwise, see you next time!

A Brief Review of Punctuation: Dashes

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Today I want to tackle one of the most useful but perhaps most confusing elements of punctuation: the dash family.

The first thing to understand is that there are actually three members of what I’m calling the “dash family”: the hyphen, the en dash, and the em dash. Each of these family members has a different length and a different purpose. I also want to make sure that you note that different style guides and different types of publications sometimes have different rules for these family members. The rules I’m explaining here apply to the Chicago Manual of Style and most books; if you’re using a different style guide or are working on an article, please be sure to check your style guide before following the guidelines I’m presenting here!

Most people are pretty familiar with the hyphen and the em dash, even if they aren’t familiar with those technical names for them. The hyphen is the shortest of the dashes, and it’s used to form compound words, like “gluten-free” or “non-GMO.” The em dash is the longest of the dashes (about the length of two hyphens), and it’s primarily used to set words or phrases apart in a sentence–kind of like this. An em dash can be used in the middle or at the beginning of a sentence–on its own or in pairs–and there are no spaces between an em dash and its surrounding words.

Where things get tricky is with the en dash. Somewhere between a hyphen and an em dash in length, the en dash has three uses. The first is as a sort of super-hyphen in compound words where part of the compound is itself two or more words, like “post–World War II Europe” or “San Diego–based company.” The second use of an en dash is to replace the word “through” when presenting a range of numbers; for example, “World War II lasted from 1939–1945.” The final use of an en dash is to present scores or totals, such as “the Patriots defeated the Seahawks 28–24 in the 2015 Super Bowl.” As with em dashes (and hyphens, for that matter), there is no space between an en dash and the words or numbers on either side of it.

I hope this review has given you renewed confidence when you use any member of the dash family. Hyphens, en dashes, and em dashes are all incredibly useful punctuation tools–and knowing the differences between them and using them properly in your writing can really make your prose stand out from the crowd!

Questions? Comments? Concerns? Other punctuation marks you’d like me to review? Please let me know! Otherwise, I’ll see you all next time!

A Prepositional Interruption

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I’ll be returning to the punctuation review next time (dashes are up next!), but I wanted to interrupt myself today to share this highly helpful chart I found, which presents some of the most common word/preposition pairings. It’s surprisingly difficult sometimes to determine which preposition is supposed to go with the word you’re using, so I’m hoping that this will be a handy resource to get you through the matching process and back into the meat of your writing.

Here it is:

prepositions

And that’s it for today! See you next time for a brief review of dashes and how to use them!

A Brief Review of Punctuation: The Quotation Mark

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I’m back with another little punctuation lesson. Today’s victim? The quotation mark.

Now, the tricky part about quotation marks isn’t how or when to use them; it’s whether other punctuation marks go inside or outside closing quotation marks. Part of the vast confusion about the rules governing punctuation mark order stems from the fact that British English and American English differ when it comes to this issue. For simplicity’s sake, the rules I outline here will be for American English. The other part of the vast confusion stems from the fact that different rules apply to different punctuation marks when they’re used in conjunction with quotation marks. But not to worry! I’m going to lay it all out for you now…

So, you’ve got your quotation, and you’re all set with your opening quotation mark and all the punctuation that comes within the quotation. But now you’re at the end of the quotation, and you have no idea whether that comma, period, exclamation point, question mark, colon, or semicolon should go before or after your closing quotation mark!

Commas and periods are easy: They always go before the closing quotation mark. Always. No exceptions. It is always “Let’s go to the store,” she said and never “Let’s go to the store”, she said.

Colons and semicolons are also easy: They always go after the closing quotation mark. Always. No exceptions. It is always She said, “Let’s go to the store”; then she went and never She said, “Let’s go to the store;” then she went.

Question marks and exclamation points are slightly more difficult because they vary depending on context. If they are part of the quotation, they go before the closing quotation mark, and if they are not part of the quotation, they go after the closing quotation mark. So, She asked, “Do you want to go to the store?” but Did she say, “Let’s go to the store”?

And that’s all there is too it! Getting the order right is really just about remembering which rule applies to which punctuation marks…and hopefully this will serve as a handy guide to help you remember! Next time, I’ll be discussing dashes. But until then, go forth and quote away!

A Brief Review of Punctuation: The Colon

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I’m back again with more tips for your punctuation pleasure! Today is all about the colon, one of the most misunderstood punctuation marks out there. Somewhere along the way, we all (and I include myself in this group!) seem to get the idea that the colon is designed to introduce any list we include in a sentence. We think, for example, that it’s perfect for use in a situation like this: I went to the store and bought: apples, bananas, and oranges. Well, brace yourself, because that is actually a completely incorrect use of the colon!

So what’s the secret to a correct use of the colon? It’s actually quite simple: It must follow an independent clause (which, as you may recall from last week, is a phrase that could be a complete sentence in and of itself). So, while it’s incorrect to say I went to the store and bought: apples, bananas, and oranges (because “I went to the store and bought” isn’t really a complete sentence), it’s absolutely correct to say I went to the store and bought several kinds of fruit: apples, bananas, and oranges (because “I went to the store and bought several kinds of fruit” can stand on its own). Thus, the idea of a colon as something meant to introduce a list is not an entirely incorrect one; it’s simply that that colon and list must be preceded by an independent clause.

Now, there’s one more nuance to cover when it comes to colons: the capitalization of the first word following the colon. There’s some debate about this, but I subscribe to the camp that uses a lowercase letter if what follows the colon is not an independent clause and a capital letter if what follows the colon is an independent clause. Thus (as you can see above), Now, there’s one more nuance to cover when it comes to colons: the capitalization of the first word following the colon, but It’s actually quite simple: It must follow an independent clause. An easy way to remember that rule is that the first word of any sentence gets capitalized, so if what follows the colon could be a sentence, its first word needs to be capitalized.

I hope you’re now ready to use colons in a whole new–and more correct–way in your writing! As with semicolons, they’re an incredibly useful tool with a very specific purpose, and using them in your writing will add the clarity and elegance readers so appreciate. Next time, I’ll be talking about the wonders of quotation marks.

Until then!

A Brief Review of Punctuation: The Semicolon

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I thought I’d take a few posts to review some of the trickier aspects of punctuation (or at least, those aspects that seem to trip up writers most often), and I’m going to start with my favorite of punctuation marks: the semicolon. I learned proper use of the semicolon from my English teacher my senior year of high school, and I’ve loved it ever since. I tend to think of the semicolon as the best-kept secret in punctuation: Most people are uncertain about its purpose or how to use it properly, but it’s blessed with a specific utility that allows it to meet particular punctuation needs that no other mark can fulfill–and it does so with great elegance. So, without further ado…

The semicolon has two primary uses, the first of which is to replace the comma/conjunction combo when joining two independent clauses. In case it’s been a while since your last grammar class, I’ll remind you that an independent clause is simply a stand-alone, complete sentence. An example of an independent clause is John went to the store (see how it forms a complete sentence on its own, with noun and verb?). If you wanted to join that independent clause with another independent clause, like Mary stayed home, you would probably use the comma/conjunction combo. The list of conjunctions includes and, but, for, or, nor, yet, and so. We could use any of these conjunctions with a comma to join our two independent clauses to form a single sentence: John went to the store, and Mary stayed home. John went to the store, but Mary stayed home. John went to the store, so Mary stayed home. And so on.

So, if we have the comma/conjunction solution, why do we need the semicolon? Well, the semicolon comes in handy when the two independent clauses express closely related ideas–so closely related that they’re almost two halves of the same thought. In such a case, using a comma/conjunction combo doesn’t quite express the closeness of the relationship between the two clauses; you need a semicolon for that. (See what I did there?) Here’s another example: John went to the store; he couldn’t bear to stay home with Mary. Do you see how the semicolon expresses the closeness of those ideas, with just a single mark? That is the beauty of the first use of the semicolon. (Remember, though, that the semicolon only works in this usage when the two clauses are independent and could each stand as their own complete sentence!)

The second primary use of the semicolon is as a “super-comma.” Sometimes, sentences wind up having a lot of commas, and that leaves anyone reading the sentence prone to getting lost in all the punctuation. Here is an example: John went to the store and bought meat, including chicken, turkey, and beef, dairy, including milk, cheese, and yogurt, vegetables, including lettuce, green beans, and zucchini, and fruit, including apples, oranges, and bananas. Whew! That’s a lot of commas, and a reader might easily get lost in that sentence and start wondering if the author thinks that dairy is a type of meat. In a case like this, a semicolon can provide a lot of clarity, replacing a few of the commas to separate the bigger ideas and leaving the other commas to separate the smaller ideas. So: John went to the store and bought meat, including chicken, turkey, and beef; dairy, including milk, cheese, and yogurt; vegetables, including lettuce, green beans, and zucchini; and fruit, including apples, oranges, and bananas. Do you see how the semicolons are functioning as “super-commas” to separate the ideas of meat, dairy, vegetables, and fruit from one another? They provide some much-needed clarity without requiring the sentence to be rewritten.

I hope that this brief review has shown you the beauty of the semicolon and that you’re ready to tackle your next piece of writing with its power in your arsenal. Please don’t hesitate to leave me questions in the comments if I’ve left you wondering about anything or if you’d like some additional examples. Otherwise, I’ll see you next time for more fun with punctuation!